Answer the following questions with a minimum of 3 sentences each.
After you have posted, respond to a group mate with at least 5 sentences stating why you agree or disagree with their answers. The goal is to help one another understand the text.
1] How are people frequently mindless? How can they be more mindful?
2] How do people make bids with a sour/negative start up? How can they avoid this?
3] Explain the difference between criticism and a complaint? What should we do if we have a problem?
4] What is flooding? How can we fix this problem for ourselves or others?
5] What is a crabby critical frame of mind? What can we do to change that?
6] Why do people sometimes avoid a conversation they need to have? What are they worried about? What should they do instead?
7] Why do some people attack and defend while others avoid or deny? Why would they choose this style? What would be a better approach?
8] What can you do to better self-disclose and connect in your relationships with others?
Personal experiences:
A] Which people in your life do you personally have the most conflicts with that you’d like to ultimately have a better relationship with?
B] Write down an experience in detail with one of these people – what happened exactly? Why do you think things went badly? Do you think if you employed a bid buster, things would go better?
reply to this:
1. People are more unconscious because they are not really aware of the actions or consequences that they may cause. A person can be more aware knowing the consequences of what can happen later. Also, try to know what action to take before doing them and weigh things more.2. They are ruder to the way of speaking, they are contradictory and they always criticize. The way to avoid that is to be more polite, attentive, and passive when responding. Also, have good empathy and be enthusiastic about others.3. The difference between criticizing and complaining is that criticizing is like your opinion about what you don’t like or disapprove of. And complaining is something you dislike doing. What we should do if we have a problem is make less criticism and complain less and do things to solve the problem.4. A flood is when the sea covers parts of the land. A flood is when the sea covers parts of the land. We can solve it, but depending on the problem, for example, if it is small I can do it, but if it is very big I will have to do it together.5. The frame of mind is the way a person feels about their life. We can change that by being happy and living the life we have. Also, do not always have to see the bad, we must try to see the good side in life.6. People sometimes avoid a conversation that they need to have, so they don’t have more problems and because they feel more secure. They are concerned about talking about difficult conflicts because it is an issue they like to deal with. What they should do is confront the difficult conversations and then not have those conversations in the future.7. What I think about that is that it depends on the behavior and the experience of the person because everyone is different. I think they choose that style to feel more protected and secure. The best approach would be to be more self-confident and more open with the people around you.8. To create connections, they must first know each other. After revealing personal information, then the relationship grows, be nice. To connect better in relationships with others is to be humble, honest, and learn to listen.A) The person that I have conflicts with is someone very close and in the truth, I would like to improve my relationship with the person.B) The truth is, I made a huge mistake that I shouldn’t do. And it’s hard to explain, but things went wrong and little of that confidence has been lost since then. The truth would not hire any deal destroyer.
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